Is He the one? Should I waste time getting to know him? I feel like divorcing, I’m not sure he has the qualities . Am I the right man? We often get so many of these questions pertaining to the “Right One". The only thing we can do is refer back to what our Heavenly Father has told us. So if you are searching for the ideal man as a Christian woman, you don’t need to look anywhere else but in the Bible. Marriage is the first institution God established after the creation of Adam. This means if you are searching for the ideal man, you need to look at the qualities of the first man to whom God established the first marriage for in the beginning.