One of the things about your self esteem is that it is actually a misnomer. It leads you to believe that what you think about you is totally based on you and what you feel about you as if you completely control how you think about you. One of the first steps to recovering your self esteem is getting the right mindset. You have to do certain things in your mind before you can start physically changing your self-esteem. You have to realize that you are not in complete control of how you feel about yourself. How you feel about yourself is much based on how you perceive others to feel about you. Watch this premium video to learn how you can get the right mindset and rebuild your self-esteem.